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Parents and friends were major factors in determining choices and
opportunities around out of school activities. Adults in charge
were also very important. Buildings were important to this group,
along with culture, activities, workshops and choice.
The two groups differed over toys and equipment, money and transport.
Crime and bullying was not seen as particularly important. Safety
and activities were also important to one group but not to the other.
Like Cobden, this school also has a predominance of children from
a South Asian ancestral background (largely of Gujarati origin).
The childrens dreams are of an ideal world where all their
wishes are granted and they feel safe. Some of the things they talk
about are escape routes from everyday life : never-ending
ladder that goes into the sky; cartoon land. One girl
and one boy live there. People from other countries can go to visit.
Some of their ideas are quite elaborate: On the ground there
are wishing stones. If you pick them up they shine and thats
when you make a wish... and it goes on. These children are
obviously imaginative.
Many ideas were expressed about wanting to be successful in life,
either by making a lot of money or by helping/contributing to society.
Only two comments talked explicitly about inner qualities. Many
comments were about being creative such as wanting to be an artist/dancer.
Learning about ones own culture/language and access to sports
was also important.
The children feel happy when they are with and have close relationships
with family/friends, when others are happy, when they have a birthday
and when they have lots of things: I am happy when my dad
is near me - I am happy when I go to my auntys house - I am
happy when I have lots of things. They also like to have a
degree of independence : - I like it when adults are away.
They feel unhappy when theyre on the receiving end of adults
and family members anger. They dont like being bothered
by other people, name-calling, others making them cry, bullying,
and have concerns about getting lost, being alone, not being liked,
doors left unlocked. So concerns about safety and belonging are
paramount:
I am unhappy when my mum hits me; I am unhappy
when my big sister leaves me; I am unhappy when I get
told off; Sometimes I worry when I get lost, fall over,
lose things, get hit (bullying), lose friends, outside at night
time, no-one to play with, doors are not locked. Children
also said that unhappiness equated with adults making lunch, being
at home and being left alone (a few children).
If the children had money they would: buy a big hotel
or buy a motor bike, but also ideas are expressed on
sharing with family. The children enjoy being involved in sports,
fighting with brothers, doing activities with family and friends
and creative activities. Some enjoy carrying on with interests outside
of school e.g. writing and maths. Lots of children really enjoyed
their Playstations, arts and drawing activities, football, singing
and dancing and being with friends. Others also mentioned school
and riding bikes.
Social activities and acceptance by peer groups is very important
as are issues of security, feeling at ease in ones environment
and being properly looked after. Its important for them to
have somewhere safe to play, ideally a large outdoor area where
parents can also go; a place that caters for all interests.
Leaf Shapes: These leaf shapes reveal what would happen in the childrens
ideal village. Their preoccupations concern the environment
a safe place free of crime and the worry of traffic, cleaner streets,
places for animals to live and magical structures of various kinds.
On the ground there are wishing stones. If you pick them up
they shine and thats when you make a wish. Above it is a star
that you can ride on. Next to it is a dog that can talk to people.
In the river is a dolphin you can play with. At the other side are
some flowers, a duck and a nest with eggs in. There is a tree that
stays green forever.
The idea of more plants, trees and animals was seen as very important
as was freedom from fighting and killing. (This may relate specifically
to very recent events in Gujarat). After school activities desired
included: Karate, Gujarati classes, music, bike riding, helping
at home, ice skating, playing in a park, flying kites and having
a maze.
The children expressed a lot of things that they like: to be with
mums and dads and when adults help them. They also like it when
adults make them laugh, give them money, look after them like parents,
like them, are quiet and talk, kind, get them home and help with
everything. They expressed a lot about friends, sports: football,
basketball, swimming, wrestling, computers and art. Playstations
were also important for some but not many expressed anything about
television.
Their aspirations of being a grown up: footballers, artists, policemen,
teachers, nurses, taxi driver, docter, a worker for Toys R
Us, rich, fighter pilot and karate master. One child wanted to be
a patient.
Their ideal village: all of the children have nowhere to play when
they are on the road and get bored. They want to build their town
because it is fun for adults and kids. I think
that we should buy it because it is a super place for people who
come on holiday. £1 a go for the rollercoaster and theres
a big outdoor swimming pool. The town should have shops, leisure
centre, a school. All placed in the middle and no cars. An outside
car park and bus stop to go to town so it is safe for children.
A hospital in a quiet place. A large park for children with a lake
for dads fishing. A water fun park with a waterfall. There
would be good services and the place would be good to play in.
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